mo|17|cis|please be my friend|i live a tummy appreciation life|"im a third nipple kind of person"

wine420:

If u like both the Labour Party and the Green Party but don’t know who to vote for go to http://voteswap.org and see what kind of constituency you live in and how your vote could best be used in order to stop another conservative government. I live in a safe conservative seat and wasn’t sure how I should vote but this website helped give me a clearer idea of what I should do so yeah just check it out

(Source: nathaniel5)

liquidcoma:

mertvechyna:

oh yea: the dental surgeon informed me that if u smoke weed regularly u should always tell the anaesthesiologist before ur surgery, because it’s possible that u could wake up during surgery due to them giving u the dosage they would give someone who doesn’t smoke weed. 

so don’t lie, they aren’t cops, they just want to make sure ur good for the duration of the surgery. i didn’t know this for my colonoscopy but i wasn’t smoking regularly then so it wasn’t relevant. just a psa

Its Tru. I have woken up during anaesthesia and it is not fun u will not like it

feelingsandfeminism:

They’re incredibly racist.

• One of the senior MEPs referred to places that we send foreign aid to as ‘bongo-bongo land’ 
  
• UKIP member Ken Chapman wrote that “islam is a cancer that needs eradicating”
  
• After comedian Lenny Henry said there should be more black and ethnic minority people in creative industries, UKIP candidate William Henwood said that Henry should move to a ‘black country’.
  
• Click here for more ignorant, bigoted, and racist shit various party members have said (includes the examples above)
• Nigel Farage: if an employer wishes to “discriminate” by choosing a British-born person “they should be allowed to do so”
• UKIP would scrap much of the legislation designed to prevent racial discrimination in work, party leader Nigel Farage has said.
  
• Nigel Farage: Ban migrants with HIV from entering Britain
  
• ‘Immigrants must financially support themselves and their dependents for 5 years. This means private health insurance (except emergency medical care), private education and private housing – they should pay into the pot before they take out of it’ (from their own goddamn site, ugh)
• They “say no to political correctness” because it “stifles freedom of speech”.

They’re also incredibly sexist

• They want to scrap paid maternity leave, and think that women who take maternity leave are “worth less” than their male counterparts.
• UKIP member Godfrey Bloom branded female activists “sluts”.
  
• They want to scrap employment regulations against sexual harassment and safeguards for part time and irregular workers.
• They have voted against or simply not turned up to key votes in the European Parliament on ensuring equal pay, combating violence against women and ruling out FGM.
  
• UKIP’s only two female MEPs, Nikki Sinclaire and Marta Andreasen, have both left the party. Andreason said Farage “doesn’t try to involve intelligent professional women in positions of responsibility in the party. He thinks women should be in the kitchen or in the bedroom”. Nikki Sinclaire won an Employment Tribunal claim for sex discrimination against the party.
  
• Roger Helmer, UKIP MEP and candidate in the Newark by-election, said,“Rape is always wrong, but not always equally culpable.” (this link also shows his views on homosexuality, which are equally gross).
  
• ?????? generally just horrible.

They are homophobic and transphobic:

• UKIP will withdraw from the jurisdiction of the European Court of Human Rights (WHY??? WHY WOULD YOU WANT THIS?)
  
• UKIP councillor David Silvester blamed the floods at the beginning of last year on gay marriage
  
• UKIP’s by-election candidate Roger Helmer has claimed that the NHS should fund ‘gay-cure’ therapy 
• UKIP councillor Iain McLaughlan claimed it was a “tragedy” that Section 28 was ever repealed because “children need to be protected from the promotion of homosexuality”
  
• When asked if gay people are welcome in UKIP, Farage replied with “well we’ve just had a gay person elected as one of our MEP’s…I think that answers the question” (hint: it doesn’t)
  
• UKIP councillor: “bisexuals and trans people are part time homosexuals” 
  
• Top Ukip official Matthew Richardson forced to apologise after ‘unforgivable’ anti-trans rant and ‘she-males’ slur (apparently this happened years ago but it still says a lot about the party members)
  

They are ableist:

• UKIP: Disability benefit claimants are “parasitic underclass of scroungers”
• “All disabled babies should be aborted” (admittedly this was said in 2012, but it says a lot about party members, doesn’t it?)

Other things:

• They want to legalise handguns (why? why??? this makes no sense? The UK has had hardly any gun crimes since our anti-gun legislation, why would you want to change that?!)

Tbh there’s probably a lot more but looking at all these things makes me feel really gross and I want to stop researching this racist piece of shit political party now. Feel free to add more if you find them!!

NOTE: Some of the policies mentioned in the articles I found them from had links but when I clicked them they had ‘page not found’, meaning they’ve been taken down and I couldn’t find them elsewhere so I’m a bit baffled….

Social skills: noticing when repetition is communication

realsocialskills:

So there’s this dynamic:

Autistic person: The door is open!

Other person: I *know* that. It’s hot in here.

Autistic person: The door is open!

Other person: I already explained to you that it’s hot in here!

Autistic person: The door is open!

Other person: Why do you have to repeat things all the time?!

Often when this happens, what’s really going on is that the autistic person is trying to communicate something, and they’re not being understood. The other person things that they are understanding and responding, and that the autistic person is just repeating the same thing over and over either for no reason or because they are being stubborn and inflexible and obnoxious and pushy.

When what’s really happening is that the autistic person is not being understood, and they are communicating using the words they have. There’s a NT social expectation that if people aren’t being understood, they should change their words and explain things differently. Sometimes autistic people aren’t capable of doing this without help.

So, if this is happening, assume it’s communication and try to figure out what’s being communicated. If you’re the one with more words, and you want the communication to happen in words, then you have to provide words that make communication possible. For example:

Other person: Do you want the door to be closed, or are you saying something else?

Autistic person: Something else

Other person: Do you want to show me something outside, or something else?

Autistic person: Something else

Other person: Are you worried about something that might happen, or something else?

Autistic person: Worried

Other person: Are you worried that something will come in, or that something will go out?

Autistic person: Baby

Other person: She’s in her crib, and the baby gate is up. Is that ok, or is there still a problem?

Autistic person: ok

autisticgaz:

ok so reminder that autism is

• a developmental disorder
• a broad spectrum of different symptoms and traits
• found in people of all races, genders, sexualities, ages, etc
• becoming more commonly diagnosed due to increased knowledge

it is not

• a disease
• “cureable”
• only present in young white boys
• caused by vaccines
• the boogeyman

(Source: rockafirevevo)

afrofilipino:

just wanna remind my followers that i’ll tag triggers upon request, feel free to ask me privately, on or off anon is fine 

(Source: antiandrogen)

here’s my advice

lightly-child:

• yes, eat that
• no, do not text back the fuckboy
• hush, her sex life is none of our business
• coconut oil

(Source: carotryin-blog)

hypersexualsportswear:

Imagine being 11 years old and you are already an academy award nominated actress with a successful career but people don’t even make an effort to learn how to pronounce your name, in fact they put more effort into making jokes about mispronouncing it. Everyone is trash.

magegirls:

eirstegalkin:

in a healthy, close relationship of any kind, when something upsets you, you need to bring it up. as soon as possible, even. cultivate an environment in which you both can talk about things that upset you, with the utmost attention to everyone’s feelings. it’s a really simple thing to do but it’s a thing i’ve been working on for a while and i’m getting actual nice things happening as a result

Of all my posts to go super big I’m glad it was this one

notmysecret:

robotlimb:

please stop calling autism a mental illness or grouping it w mental illnesses. its a neurodevelopmental disorder. its not an illness.

i literally didn’t know that.

(Source: robotlimb-blog)

alltheloveicouldfind:

umbrellabrat-deactivated2015070:

in Martin Place, which is within the CBD of Sydney, there is currently a hostage situation taking place in a lindt chocolate cafe. It has occurred since 9:45AM and is still underway. It is currently 2:45PM.

All I know myself so far is this:

• There is around 13-50 people being held hostage within this cafe, customers and staff.
• There is at least one gunman (possible two) controlling the situation inside. Police are on the scene outside.
• The Sydney Opera House and areas around Martin Place have been shut down and evacuated.
• The motivations behind the people being held hostage has not been confirmed and is unknown, as is why the Sydney Opera House is currently being evacuated. 
• The hostages being held against the window with a flag; it is not an Islamic State flag. 
• There are fears bombs are throughout the city. 
• Sydney Harbour Bridge is down, buses and trains re-routed.

I’m really sorry I can’t say any more as there’s a lot of false information being carried around but I’ll be reblogging a lot to do with the situation as it happens to keep you all informed. Its hard to trust the media as its very opinionated. 

I’m terrified. I just got a call from my friend and she’s okay and she’s trying to safely get to my house. Both she and I work in the city very close to Martin Place. 

I’m praying for their safety.

This is literally all we know right now. Others on tumblr need to stop spreading misinformation